10 Tips for Rocking Family Road Trips—from a Mom of 4
Some twin parents cope with newborn chaos by camping out at
home. We survived by staying on the move, buckling up for the wild ride
ahead.
We warmed up by strolling our twins home from the hospital,
ramped it up with daily walks in Central Park, and by two weeks old launched
into our first mini road trip: 75 miles from New York City to New Hope,
PA. We discovered rest stops and scenic turn-offs we never knew existed as we
tried to calm a chorus of newborn tears with side-of-the-road breastfeeding, messily
mixed formula, diaper changes in the trunk, and (finally) me sitting between
the car seats where the babies could cling to my index fingers.
We navigated our double stroller over the bridge from New Jersey to Pennsylvania and into a restaurant with
outdoor seating that we had frequented as a married couple. All I remember is
trying to juggle babies, bottles, breasts, and what I’m sure was a delicious
meal that mainly ended up in a to-go box. Note to multitasking diners, order
something you can eat without a knife. Bonus if you can inhale your meal with
just one hand. It seemed like the only way the babies would stop crying was to
feed them, so that’s what we did.
In hindsight, our little ones were
probably just exhausted. Blessing upon blessings, they slept the entire way
home. Wearing the twins in our carriers probably would have simplified
our journey. We actually tried our carriers on for the first time before
leaving our apartment. But we were too intimidated by all the straps and
buckles and figured we had enough variables on this outing without the added hurdle
of figuring out new baby gear. Now whenever a new mom friend hesitates to try
her carrier, I come alongside to help her position the baby and get comfortable
with the setup. Parenting is not for the proud—we need all the help and gear we
can get!
Our New Hope adventure was a test run for a five-hour drive
to Vermont a few weeks later. Since then, we’ve set out on road trips once or
twice a month, playing the maddening game of trial and error to address the
inevitable tantrums, whining, hunger, accidents, throw up, boredom, spills, and
nap-disturbing laughing fits we face on the road.
Five years later, and hundreds of hours of family drive time under our belts, I’ve gathered a few tips to share with mom friends before they pack the trunk for their own adventures.
Five years later, and hundreds of hours of family drive time under our belts, I’ve gathered a few tips to share with mom friends before they pack the trunk for their own adventures.
Pack a backpack for
each kid with their essential items: lovey, activity book (Usborne wipe-clean
books and Melissa and Doug Water Wow books are great), change of
clothes, water bottle, and snack. Store it within the kid’s reach to encourage
independence and so you don’t have to repeatedly contort your body from the
front seat.
Store a clean-up bag
in your car for spills and accidents. It could include wipes, paper towels,
upholstery cleaner, empty plastic bags, spare burp cloths, Band-Aids, and a
portable potty.
Plan to make way more
stops than road-tripping adults need. To minimize stops, limit liquids in
the car. This also means thinking strategically about snacks. Eating salty chips
and crackers will make everyone thirsty and need more bathroom breaks. We try
to avoid mindless snacking and use it, instead, to extend drive time an extra
half hour. A loaf of bread works wonders. If kids are legitimately hungry, they
will eat a slice and it will tide them over until meal time. If they were just
requesting a snack out of boredom, they will probably skip the bread. When you
do stop, make sure everyone uses the bathroom—the only exception being sleeping
children.
Have kids’ music on
hand for when you need to change the mood of the whole car. Music Together
CDs have been a life saver since my twins were little. At 10 months old they
would immediately stop fussing when the “Hello Song” played. Other favorites
include music from Vacation Bible School and The Wiggles.
Time driving with
naps and bedtime. The drive will go so much faster if at least one kid is
asleep! To avoid disturbing a sleeping child during quick stops, use the trunk
as an additional exit option and leave the car running and music playing.
Keep the kids’ minds
engaged with a game of I Spy or a road sign letter scavenger hunt. My son
loves it when we ask him math questions (for instance, “What is 22 +
24?” or “What if Zachary had four cookies and gave one to each sister. How many
would he have left?”) My daughter loves animal questions (“I’m thinking of an
animal that flies and is nocturnal. What could it be?”) My 1-yr-old loves when
my husband uses her stuffed animals play peek-a-boo from behind the front seat.
Clip a pacifier to
baby’s car seat strap or seat belt so when it pops out you know where to
start looking.
Use GPS to estimate
your arrival time. Answering the “How many minutes until we get to the
restaurant?” question with a specific, updating number is far less annoying
than a repeated chorus of, “Are we there yet?” Better yet, establish an ETA and
let your older kids do the math to figure out how many minutes until you will
arrive.
Run a mini bedtime
routine at your dinner stop. Change the kids into pajamas and brush/floss
teeth so that when you arrive at your destination, the kids can just do a quick
potty check before jumping into bed. Make sure you have the right footwear to
work with whatever p.j.s you pack. For example, bring boots to fit over footed
p.j.s or an extra set of socks if your daughter changed out of tights. Pack all
this bedtime prep gear in a big bag along with your diaper bag, milk, or other
items you’ll need inside. Then you can quickly exit the car (and make a mad
dash for the bathroom) instead of shuffling through luggage to find your
supplies.
If your child gets
carsick, teach them to hold and aim for a plastic bag. Younger kids can
wear a bib or even a trash bag with holes cut out for their head and arms, like
a poncho. As soon as it’s safe to do so, switch to a front-facing car seat. Time
and choose your food wisely because whatever goes in will be the aroma of the
day if it comes back out.
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